There is no doubt that the power of customs and traditions superior any power of many people; in all societies. Indeed Most of them already purely masculine societies.
Always men do no wrong and brought up from childhood on that, Called him free rein to do what ever he wants while girl is always a source of fear and problems and she is incomplete eligibility, and always should be accompaniment with a man to protect or control her, The problem is in the perception of inferiority of women and she’s just something for entertainment.
If men and women trying to observe their behavior when they are in a place containing the both genders, they would find several behavioral models based on the cultural discrimination against women, But they are going through them without realizing the consequences, and They might practice them without awareness of their future impact.
Men allowed doing such and such and it is “3eb” flaw for a woman to do this and act this way, because society will not have mercy on her, nor people will leave her alone, men live there life the way they want, while women’s rights are shrinking and shrinking under the rule of custom and traditions.
If a man decide to marry after his wife death they will not only encourage him to do so but they will help him to find a new one, also he is entitled to study the specialization they desire no matter how, to return home in time as he considers appropriate and if he stand to express his opinion and believe he will be considered enterprising champion.
In return when a women decide to marry after her husband death she will be considered “mestjozeh” will do any thing to have a man in her beside, and even the divorced women seen as “used product”. Also women have to study what her guardian finds appropriate, and not allowed to get out only for the utmost purposes, and if a woman married younger man than her, she will have her share of people words and blame, and if she tried to express her opinion and believe, she will be considered a rude.
With these Double standards that have been set, made women with double personality, one of them is the caring mother, the loving wife, the dutiful daughter and the understanding sister, and the other one is the angry and disaffected woman, who want to escape to another reality where she find happiness, and achieve her dreams, and find her existence, but when she returns to reality, she fined herself obliged to sacrifice her dreams and desires for the sake of her children, husband and the community, making her moiety with feeling of emptiness and despair, not able to love herself or anyone else.
While men alleged that the whole matter, in the interest of women or femininity, but in fact its supports his interests of one hand, and his ego and dominance on the other.
In your opinion, who do you think sat up these traditions and customs in the first place, and to whom interested exactly? Do you think that it’s true what they said its brought to women interests, or it’s just a means used to control women? Who should we blame on this? Also what do you say about those who says that these tradition is a part of some religions, and the one who didn’t committed it, is a contrary to his religion?